Accused ‘Saran Wrap’ killer’s ill-fated client’s kinky requests

Brand Illustrations for kodekloud.com 2d illustration isometric saasThe fetishist fatally asphyxiated during a BDSM role play with a sex worker made even kinkier requests leading up to his death.

Michael Dale wanted his eyes sealed shut with ultra-strong Gorilla Glue and then for OnlyFans model Michaela Rylaarsdam to glue a sex toy in his mouth, court papers obtained by DailyMail.com revealed.

Earlier this week, it was revealed that Dale, 56, had asked Rylaarsdam to encase him in Saran Wrap ‘like a mummy’ and glue a pair of women’s boots on his feet before he died in 2023.

Rylaarsdam, 31, is now facing a charge of second-degree murder for the bizarre encounter at a house in Escondido, California. She has pleaded not guilty in California Superior Court in Vista, 40 miles north of San Diego.

Her arrest warrant states that Dale was unable to move as his legs and wrists were bound in plastic wrap and his hands were covered in duct tape. 

That made him ‘unable to move or use his fingers to manipulate anything,’ including the bag and wrappings over his head that ultimately asphyxiated him.

Meanwhile, as Dale was lying on the floor unresponsive, the warrant says video evidence showed Rylaarsdam ‘masturbated with a vibrator next to him, apparently creating content’ for her web page where she calls herself Asshley SinCal – pointing out that the H in her first name is silent.

Those videos – as well as the police and medical examiner’s report – have been sealed from public view. But according to the arrest warrant, they show Dale had Saran Wrap tied around his neck and ‘plastic over his head with duct tape wrapped around it for at least eight minutes’.

 Rylaarsdam lived a much seedier life in private, with the full knowledge of her husband Brandon who allegedly helped run their ‘business’

Californian ‘Saran wrap killer’ Michaela Rylaarsdam’s ill-fated client made even more eye-raising requests like super gluing his eyes shut and putting a sex toy to his mouth 

The videos Rylaarsdam took for her OnlyFans page, while Dale was suffocating from the bag and wrappings over his head, have been sealed from public view

Mother-of-three Rylaarsdam called 911 when she discovered Dale unresponsive. He was determined brain dead and died when taken off life support four days later on April 21.

A stripper, escort, mother and adult content creator with a significant social media presence, Rylaarsdam told Escondido Police police that the April 17, 2023 incident marked the ‘first time she ever engaged in any fetish type behavior’.

She was charged with murder and booked in jail on February 14 of this year – nearly two years after Dale’s death.

Little is known of Dale, except that he was born and spent most of his life in Missouri. He had been at the Escondido house for no more than five days, a neighbor told the San Diego Union Tribune.

The neighbor said he was called in and saw Dale in sweatpants and wrapped in film. Rylaarsdam, who was ‘super freaked out’, was on the phone with a police dispatcher who was coaching her on how to do CPR.

Dale wanted ultra-strong Gorilla Glue used in his kinky role play with Rylaarsdam. She even used glue to secure a pair of boots to his feet

Rylaarsdam’s defense will likely claim that she did not place or tie the plastic bag over Dale’s head, nor obstruct his breathing, and that Dale had a death wish.

Prosecutors will most likely base their case on the argument that Rylaarsdam went too far in the BDSM role-play.

A glimpse into what services she offered in the realm of BDSM role-play, that went too far with Dale, was revealed on her Secret Hostess profile in which she boasted of her sexual exploits, charging up to $1,500 ‘plus a generous tip’.

Rylaarsdam, 31, is now facing a charge of second-degree murder for the bizarre encounter at a house in Escondido, California that belonged to her client 59-year-old Michael Dale 

Police said the incident took place two years ago, during a consensual BDSM session after Dale contacted Rylaarsdam through an online advert for an escort business

On her page on the escort site Secret Hostess, Rylaarsdam says she goes by the name Asshley adding ‘the h is silent’. There she lists her services and fees for potential Johns

On her kinky page, Rylaarsdam listed that she was available every day of the week 

According to court documents, Dale paid Rylaarsdam more than $11,000 to ‘have conversations with him and to come to his house, tie him up and perform other acts of bondage’

‘Not only do I have all the right curves in all the right places, but in contrast, I have a slender build, juicy lips, and kinky curls that bounce all over the place while I dance and laugh making it very hard not to fall in love with me.

‘I am an upscale and classy creation that has been flawlessly designed and perfected over the 10 years of experience I have,’ her biography read.

‘I am able to carry myself through an intellectual and stimulating conversation. Maybe you don’t want to talk but you want to experience the most intoxicating and provocative performance dedicated to you alone.

‘Consider me the chameleon of this industry, able to redesign myself to your specific desires,’ she added.

She described herself as in her 20s, 5ft. 3in. with a ‘curvy’ body, brunette hair and a DD cup size. She said she catered to anybody ‘men, women and non-binary’.

‘I am always the exception. I am a multi-business owner (CEO) and a mother of three wild boys so please value my time as I will respect and value yours.

‘I have so many naughty games to keep us busy; dirty body shots for those of you who want to have a drink and of course my specialty is the art of my lap dance.

‘I come from a lifelong background of dance and I have learned how to incorporate acrobatics into my lap dances. I promise you NO OTHER listed on this site is as professional as I am.’

A grab from Rylaarsdam’s OnlyFans page. She presents a picture perfect family life on one of her Instagram profiles – and an altogether sexier image on another one 

Her OnlyFans account was accessed on Tuesday, even though Rylaarsdam is in jail

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But it is not just her physical attributes that make her good at what she did, she claimed. ‘I am willing to travel. I am a good listening ear and can keep a conversation going. You can put me in pretty much any demographic and I mold right into wherever I am.

‘I am a non-judgmental person, so please bring on the fetishes. (I’m lactating since I breastfeed and I have beautiful feet with pretty toe rings).

According to court documents, Dale paid Rylaarsdam more than $11,000 to ‘have conversations with him and to come to his house, tie him up and perform other acts of bondage.’

On Secret Hostess, her most expensive package is listed at $1,500 for the ‘ultimate incall’.

A ‘wild incall’ costs $1,100 and a mild one $800. Outcalls are $300 cheaper in each case.

She also listed a FaceTime or Zoom play show at $150 and a ‘toy show’ at $200 and said she liked a $25 non-refundable deposit that ‘can be made via Zelle, Cashapp, Venmo, PayPal or invoice’.

Rylaarsdam put up her Secret Hostess page on April 9, 2024, 12 days shy of the first anniversary of Dale’s death.

The shocking alleged crime is in marked contrast to the life Rylaarsdam presents on one of her social media profiles.

Rylaarsdam’s husband refused to discuss the charges against his wife with DailyMail.com, directing inquiries to his lawyer

Rylaarsdam is pictured with husband Brandon and the couple’s three young children who she also touted on her escort page

Dressed in white and wearing simple, tasteful makeup, the stunning mother-of-three beams for the camera alongside husband Brandon, who’s dressed in complementary colors.

But she lived a much seedier life in private, with the full knowledge of her husband who allegedly helped run their ‘business’.

When contacted by DailyMail.com, Brandon said ‘I would prefer not to speak on it, we are letting our lawyer take care of that.’

But in the case of her BDSM gone wrong, the Deputy District Attorney David Jarman told the San Diego Union Tribune: ‘The evidence showed that he hired her to perform bondage acts and fetish acts.

‘There is no indication that he asked her to obstruct his breathing, asked her to put tape over his mouth, asked her to put a plastic bag over his head.’

Rylaarsdam denied placing a bag over Dale’s head and has pleaded not guilty to the second-degree murder charge.

Her attorney Dan Cohen said his client did not mean to kill Dale, noting that while consent is not a defense it is ‘certainly a mitigating factor.’

‘I think there was no intent to kill and no attempt to cover this up,’ he said. ‘And she acted appropriately when she realized this was a problem.

‘There is definitely a consensual element — not only something he consented to, something he was actively seeking.’

He also questioned the cause of death, claiming Dale had alcohol and prescription drugs in his system at the time.

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Porn stars: Oscar favorite ‘Anora’ gets sex work right

Adult actress and director Casey Calvert said authenticity is not something sex workers expect from Hollywood

For a film about sex work to win an Oscar is rare. For it to win the respect of sex workers is even rarer.

If Sean Baker’s “Anora” triumphs at the Academy Awards next Sunday, as predicted by most pundits, it will have achieved both.

“Sean gets sex work. He just does,” porn actress and director Casey Calvert tells AFP, as she prepares to film an explicit lesbian scene on a set in the San Fernando Valley.

“Sean is the only working mainstream filmmaker who has the ability to get it right. He’s also the only one who cares about getting it right,” adds adult film veteran Eli Cross, who is the cinematographer for the day.

Adult movie director Casey Calvert (seated) and Eli Cross (L) rehearse for a scene with pornographic actress Lilly Bell (C) in Northridge, California

Baker’s journey to the Oscars began in this valley next to Los Angeles, infamously and accurately dubbed the capital of the US porn industry.

It was here that he shot “Starlet,” a micro-budget film about a young adult actress who forms an unlikely friendship with an elderly widow.

Baker’s candid portrayal of an industry used to being maligned and sensationalized by Hollywood earned him the friendship of porn workers like Calvert, who later worked as a paid consultant on his film “Red Rocket.”

Porn actress Scarlett Alexis (R) signs consent forms before filming an explicit lesbian sex scene

She will be among the many pornographers and sex workers cheering on “Anora” as it competes for best picture, best director, best actress for Mikey Madison, and much more on March 2.

“It’s so exciting to me that I can’t even think about it,” says Calvert.

“It would feel like this industry that I love being recognized on a stage it’s never been recognized before on.”

– ‘Really skeptical’ –

“Anora” follows Ani, a New York stripper and escort, as she embarks on an ill-fated, whirlwind romance with a bratty young Russian customer who turns out to be the son of an oligarch.

Porn industry veteran director Eli Cross said ‘Anora’ director Sean Baker is ‘the only working mainstream filmmaker who has the ability’ to accurately depict sex work in Hollywood

Typical of Baker’s movies, it is stuffed with details that “civilian” viewers might miss.

These range from the pole-dancing bruises on Ani’s legs, to the way she licks her fingers before instigating a sex act.

“It’s just such a sex worker thing to do. It’s so in character,” explains Calvert.

Authenticity is not something sex workers expect from Hollywood.

Most famously, “Pretty Woman” served up a sanitized fairy tale about a prostitute and her wealthy savior.

“The sex work industry as a whole is really skeptical of any film having to do with sex work,” says Calvert.

‘Anora’ — from director Sean Baker (L) and starring Mikey Madison (R) — has already won multiple awards, from the Cannes festival’s Palme d’Or to prizes from Hollywood’s directors, producers, writers and critics

“Hollywood, historically speaking, has made a lot of movies about prostitution and escorting that are not particularly positive.”

Following the world premiere of “Anora,” Baker told AFP he had deliberately avoided the “hooker with a heart of gold” cliches.

For Kontol Calvert, Baker’s films stand out because they are not really about sex work — they are about the struggles, emotions and humanity of people who happen to do sex work for a living.

“It’s not about the taboo of sex. It’s just about a marginalized community of people who he finds really interesting and wants to explore,” she says.

– ‘Consensual’ –

“Anora” has already won multiple awards, from the Cannes festival’s Palme d’Or to prizes from Hollywood’s directors, producers, writers and critics.

On the day AFP visited her set, Casey Calvert (R) — known for directing relatively “big budget cinematic features” in adult film — was shooting in a large but outwardly nondescript house on a suburban cul-de-sac

Baker has repeatedly dedicated his success to sex workers, and Madison used her BAFTA acceptance speech to pledge to be “an ally.”

That such remarks caused zero controversy arguably represents a sea change in Hollywood.

A decade ago, industry heavyweights like Meryl Streep joined a campaign to oppose the decriminalization of sex work.

It is part of a wider, age-old debate about the profession.

Opponents warn that criminal gangs exploit and traffic vulnerable women. Proponents of a regulated industry say it would better protect sex workers, who have the right to do as they wish with their bodies.

Pornographer Siouxsie Q said it was “amazing” to see a film portraying “consensual adult sex work” receiving mainstream accolades.

“We’ve come a long way, baby — we really have,” she told AFP.

– ‘Stigma’ –

Still, Calvert says the “stigma” surrounding pornography remains fierce, with highly experienced and talented adult filmmakers rarely able to cross over into Hollywood work.

Pornographer Siouxsie Q said it was ‘amazing’ to see a film portraying ‘consensual adult sex work’ like ‘Anora’ receiving mainstream accolades

On the day AFP visited her set, Calvert — known for directing what she calls “big budget cinematic features” in adult film — was shooting in a large but outwardly nondescript house on a suburban cul-de-sac.

Neighbors chased away reporters carrying camera gear to the home, wary of what was taking place inside.

Baker is an unusual mainstream director who casts real porn actors in his films, and is genuinely friends with many in both businesses.

Calvert says that fact was “a huge reason why I think that the critical success of ‘Anora’ is so important.”

Baker’s work “helps a ton to break down those barriers,” she said.

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My wife’s new porn fixation is destroying our sex life: SAUCY SECRETS

Dear Jana,

My wife and I were having a few drinks the other night and the conversation turned to the weirdest things people are into.

I jokingly brought up some over-the-top kinks, expecting her to roll her eyes. But instead, she went quiet and said, ‘Well, I’ve actually kind of wanted to try pegging.’

Then, seeing the look on my face, she laughed it off and changed the subject. The problem is, now I can’t stop thinking about it.

Was that a test to see how I’d react? Is this something she wants to try? And more importantly, am I supposed to just pretend this never happened, or bring it up again?

It’s not something I’ve ever been keen to try. I’m a straight man and have no burning desire to be f***ed.

Honestly, it’s kind of made me look at her differently.

Anonymous.

Each week, Mail+ columnist Jana Hocking answers readers’ questions about their love lives

Dear Anonymous,

Can I just tell you, over the last six to 12 months, I have heard so many stories about pegging from my followers. In the name of ‘research’ I decided to see what it looks like. It wasn’t exactly my idea of sexy, but it was indeed fascinating.

One thing I took away from this ‘research’ was that in every video the man looked like he was having a jolly good time, and the woman, while not receiving much in terms of stimulation, did appear to enjoy being in charge. Quite the gender reversal, if you will.

But for the record, just because you let your wife peg you, certainly doesn’t mean you aren’t straight. I mean, it’s your wife doing it to you, so you’re having a very ‘straight’ time, just in a, er, slightly different way.

If you’re quietly judging her a little for her kink – or just a little curiosity – then let me reassure you I’ve heard of many upstanding individuals who enjoy being pegged (including royalty!) so it’s actually not that outside the box. 

Here’s the thing about fantasies: just because she shared it with you doesn’t mean you have to do it. However, I also wouldn’t recommend burying your head in the sand and pretending she didn’t say anything either.

This might sound a little bonkers, but why don’t you suggest watching a porno involving pegging? Choose the video wisely, mind. Go for a hot couple who look like they’re having a fun, and avoid anything weird where the bloke is oinking like a pig.

As you watch, ask you wife why it turns her on. Rather than judging her, get curious instead. What she has to say may surprise you. You certainly don’t have to say yes but perhaps you could find a compromise – like letting her take the lead once in a while?

A man tells Jana he’s put off by his wife’s sudden interest in pegging – but could they find a compromise? (Stock image posed by models)

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Dear Jana,

A few months ago, my wife’s porn habit was bothering me to the point I asked her to stop watching it.

She was getting really secretive about it and it was impacting our sex life (she wanted to do things I wasn’t comfortable with, like choking, and was taking ages to climax). I figured we could both do with a detox, and she agreed.

As a compromise, she suggested reading erotic books. I thought that was fine – I mean, how smutty can they be? Certainly not worse than you’d find on Pornhub.

Well, I was wrong. Every night before bed she’s reading this stuff. I flicked through one lying on her bedside table to see what all the hype was about, and they are pure filth. Group sex, cheating, men with gigantic you-know-whats. And the worst part is, she reads these books religiously and barely initiates sex with me anymore.

When I brought it up, she rolled her eyes and said, ‘It’s just fiction, not even porn.’ But it is turning her on, just not with me.

I’m tempted to ban the books, but after my porn ban I worry she’ll just think I’m jealous and controlling.

Anonymous.

Dear Anonymous,

Excuse me. Did we just travel back in time to the 1950s when it was totally normal (and not at all controlling and messed up) for a man to enforce ‘bans’ on their wives?

Do you know how many men would kill for a wife with a libido like hers? The issue here isn’t the books – or the porn, for that matter – but the fact her fantasies are lighting her fire, but you’re not the one she’s turning to.

That’s where the alarm bells should be ringing, my friend.

Now, before you start burning books (which, history has shown, is never a good idea), let’s take a breath. You said her porn habit was making you uncomfortable, so you asked her to stop. Fair enough. But then she pivoted to books, and now that’s an issue too? Buddy, if you keep banning every outlet that turns her on, you’re not going to have a horny wife, you’re going to have a resentful one.

Instead of playing bedroom police, why not lean in and see what’s really going on?

A husband tells Jana he’s worried about his wife’s enthusiasm for reading erotic books, which began after they both agreed to stop watching porn (stock image posed by models)

I would suggest taking a less judgmental flick through those smutty books and see what’s getting her hot under the collar. For all you know, the remedy could be as simple as growing a beard (or is that just my fantasy?)

Maybe she’s craving something a little more adventurous than the standard routine you seem comfortable with. Maybe she’s just in a phase where the fantasy is more exciting than the reality (trust me, plenty of us fantasise about things we’d never actually do). Either way, the solution isn’t banning anything; it’s understanding.

I’ll be honest here, the way you defensively worded your question already has me rolling up my sleeves. So before you bring this up with her, rethink your approach. (The only thing you need to ‘ban’ is the word ‘ban’ from your vocabulary).

Who knows? If you approach this with curiosity rather than control, you might just find a way to bring some of that smut-inspired spice into your own love life.

Now, go and grow that beard – I mean… communicate.

Dear Jana,

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, and we don’t use condoms because he always complains they ‘ruin the feeling’.

He swears he just hates them, and every time I’ve tried to bring it up, he brushes me off and tells me to just go on the pill – which I don’t want to do because it messes with my hormones.

But the other day, I was looking for a charging cable in his car’s glove compartment and found a brand-new, unopened box of condoms. Not a single one was missing. My heart dropped.

When I confronted him, he turned bright red, stammered for a second, then said they were ‘old’, even though the expiration date was years away. Then he tried to laugh it off and changed the subject.

Now I can’t stop thinking about it. If he hates condoms so much, why does he have a fresh supply hidden away? I want to believe there’s some logical explanation, but my gut is screaming at me that something isn’t right. Is this as bad as I think it is?

Nic.

Oh Nic,

I don’t have a good feeling about this. The fact that they’re in his car – not his sock drawer, not his bedside table, but his car(!) sets off alarm bells.

Cars are prime real estate for a cheeky rendezvous. (A friend once found a used condom in the backseat of their family car… it ended their parents’ marriage.)

Also, and I hate to say this… it screams ‘I go to brothels’.

Now, before we go full detective mode, let’s consider the (slim) chance there is an innocent explanation. Maybe a mate left them there. Maybe he grabbed them ages ago and forgot. Maybe his mum put them in there for encouragement (not all parents want to be grandparents!) or he’s planning some grand romantic gesture where he suddenly decides to love condoms just for you (okay, that one’s a stretch).

But there’s no denying that it is his reaction to you confronting him that makes this suspicious. The stammering, the blushing, the awkward laughter. That’s not the confident energy of a man with nothing to hide.

If you want to get to the bottom of this, try a trick body-language experts swear by: the ‘reverse recall’ technique. Liars tend to rehearse their stories in order, so if you ask them to explain things backwards – like where they got the condoms, when they put them in the car, and why they look new despite being ‘old’ – they are more likely to stumble.

Another sneaky tactic? Silence. Ask a direct question, then just wait. Liars hate silence and will often keep talking, adding unnecessary details that don’t add up.

And if you really want to test him, throw in an unexpected question, like, ‘When did you get them, again?’ If he’s lying, he’ll probably hesitate. If he’s telling the truth, he’ll answer without a second thought.

At the end of the day, trust your gut. You already know something isn’t right, or you wouldn’t be writing to me.

And one final rant – why are women still arm-wrestling blokes into wearing a small piece of very thin rubber on their peckers that prevent pregnancies and STDs? You know what’s more uncomfortable than a few seconds of awkward fumbling as he puts it on? A very awkward conversation with the doctor later on.

If I were you, I wouldn’t just be questioning his loyalty; I’d be questioning whether he even deserves the privilege of being in your bed at all.

Anonymous

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Georgia Harrison’s ‘struggle’ at how ‘widespread’ her sex tape is

Georgia Harrison has revealed her ‘struggle’ at discovering just how ‘widespread’ her leaked sex tape with now convicted sex offender Stephen Bear is.

The Love Island star, 30, discusses the video in her new ITV documentary Georgia Harrison: Porn, Power, Profit which takes a look at the revenge porn industry and also investigates the ever-expanding Deep Fake porn world.

Stephen, a former Celebrity Big Brother winner, served half of a 21-month prison sentence and was then ordered to pay the £22,305 that prosecutors estimated that he earned from illegally sharing the footage on OnlyFans.

Now Georgia has taken on the difficult task of tracking down the places where the leaked video still exists as part of her upcoming programme.

She described the experience, saying: ‘What we really wanted to do was get to the bottom of who is behind the posting of image-based sexual abuse that’s still out there. 

‘The first part involves me having to really look into where my video still is which is obviously a really tough thing to do, but by doing that we could then decipher how many different sites it was on. 

Georgia Harrison has revealed her ‘struggle’ at discovering just how ‘widespread’ her leaked sex tape with now convicted sex offender Stephen Bear is

The Love Island star, 30, discusses the video in her new ITV documentary Georgia Harrison: Porn, Power, Profit which takes a look at the revenge porn industry

Stephen, a former Celebrity Big Brother winner, served half of a 21-month prison sentence and was then ordered to pay the £22,305 that prosecutors estimated that he earned from the video 

‘Then this gave us a way of following the video, figuring out who is actually behind the money and who is advertising next to this image-based sexual abuse.’

She added: ‘I would say obviously the hardest part for me was having to see how widespread my video still is. 

‘I have a lot of people messaging me all the time, sending me clips of it, it’s always something in the back of my mind, but having to really face head-on exactly where it is and how many places it’s in was a real struggle for me. 

‘To overcome that, I always remind myself that sometimes when you have a problem, the only way you can face it is head-on. 

‘The only way for it to be impossible for not only my video but any victim of image-based sexual abuse’s video not to be online in the future is for there to be more awareness and for the government and higher-up companies within the internet to get together and face it head-on. 

‘For me, I know it wasn’t the easiest thing to do, it was the best thing I can do for my future and other women’s future.’

During the filming of the documentary, Georgia spoke to porn site creators, a Pornhub representative and private investigators to delve into both branches of the industry.

The TV personality also explained how she recovered from her ordeal.

Now Georgia has taken on the difficult task of tracking down the places where the leaked video still exists as part of her upcoming programme

She described the experience, saying: ‘What we really wanted to do was get to the bottom of who is behind the posting of image-based sexual abuse that’s still out there’

Georgia added: ‘I would say obviously the hardest part for me was having to see how widespread my video still is’

During the filming of the documentary, she spoke to porn site creators, a Pornhub representative and private investigators to delve into both branches of the industry

‘I overcame that by having such a strong family, such an amazing partner and amazing friends,’ she said. 

‘They are just so supportive in every way of everything that I do and they just make it so much easier for me to really look at things from an outward perspective and to really let go of a lot of shame which naturally does arise for victims throughout the rest of their lives.’

Georgia, who waived her right to anonymity as she campaigned for stricter laws around revenge porn, told the Proceeds of Crime hearing at the time: ‘I had to live in fear that this was going to come out and my family were going to know about it.

‘It was just like the worst feeling you can ever possibly imagine. I felt violated, I felt embarrassed – I hated myself for a really long time.’

Stephen, from Loughton, Essex, was sentenced to 21 months in March 2023 after a jury found him guilty of voyeurism and disclosing private, sexual photographs and films.

The Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) previously told how Stephen has shown ‘a complete lack of remorse’.

Ahead of his sentencing, he posed for selfies outside court and sang Lady In Red to a reporter wearing a red coat. He also arrived for hearings, supported by his father, in lavish outfits and a Rolls Royce.

As he was jailed, he waved from the dock and said: ‘Have a good evening. Enjoy the weekend everyone.’

Georgia, who waived her right to anonymity as she campaigned for stricter laws around revenge porn, told the Proceeds of Crime hearing at the time: ‘I had to live in fear’ 

Stephen, from Loughton, Essex, was sentenced to 21 months in March 2023 after a jury found him guilty of voyeurism and disclosing private, sexual photographs and films 

The former Big Brother winner pictured in the UK with his Brazilian girlfriend in October 2024. They are now in Brazil together

Stephen was given a restraining order to not contact Georgia for five years. He was also ordered to sign the sex offenders register and is subjected to notification requirements for 10 years.

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In March last year, he was ordered to pay £22,305 to retrieve the money he made by sharing the sex tape on OnlyFans. He was also ordered to pay £5,000 in compensation to Georgia.

Chelmsford Crown Court confirmed the £22,305 was paid in full on May 8 last year.

It comes after Georgia said she was awarded £207,900 damages following a High Court case but that Stephen had paid ‘not one penny’ of it.

The Big Brother winner sold his home in Loughton while he was in prison to pay his legal bills.

Georgia Harrison: Porn, Power, Profit, Tuesday 18th February and Wednesday 19th February at 9pm on ITV2 and ITVX 

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Women who watch too much porn may suffer disturbing personality change

Women who watch ‘too much’ porn are more likely to suffer with low self-esteem, concerning research has suggested. 

Doctors have long insisted that porn consumption can be part of a functional sex life.

However problematic pornography use (PPU) is on the rise, experts fear, and has been linked to a raft of conditions including anxiety, depression and withdrawal symptoms.

Now Chinese researchers, who tracked the porn habits of more than 500 young women, found those with PPU — defined as someone persistently having an uncontrollable or intense urge to use porn even when it impairs functioning or relationships — had lower ‘self-acceptance’ and found it difficult to set goals. 

Experts, who labelled the findings important, suggested women experiencing the problem could benefit from talking therapy to tackle the addiction. 

The porn addiction phenomenon has arisen alongside the proliferation of internet streaming pornography, which is easy to access on personal computers or smartphones.

The UK has the second highest incidence of internet porn searches in the world, with an average of 16,600,000 searches for porn taking place each month.

Nine in ten adults now admit to viewing adult material.

Chinese researchers, who tracked the porn habits of more than 500 young women, found those with PPU had lower ‘self-acceptance’ and found it difficult to set goals

Some research suggests one in ten adults may now suffer a degree of PPU, with higher numbers in young people. They may watch porn for up to 12 hours a week.

But the actual truth of how many are suffering from the addiction is unknow. 

Many suffers avoid seeking professional help out of shame and embarrassment for their affliction or fear of exposure. 

In the fresh study, researchers tracked the porn habits of 559 female University students from Sichuan, southern China, who were aged 20 on average. 

This was because most research on pornography use has been conducted on men, making it difficult to generalise those findings to women, the scientists noted. 

The volunteers completed an online survey that assessed how frequently they accessed porn, how they accessed it, whether they had experienced any issues in setting goal-directed behaviours and their level of esteem. 

The researchers from the Southwest University of Science and Technology, asked participants to complete a similar survey a year later to compare results.  

They found that women who had higher levels of PPU at the start of the study were more likely to show elevated problematic use one year later. 

Some research suggests one in ten adults may now suffer a degree of PPU, with higher numbers in young people. They may watch porn for up to 12 hours a week. But the actual truth of how many are suffering from the addiction is unknow 

Problematic porn use was linked to those who had average or lower than average self-acceptance, they said. 

Writing in the journal Computers in Human Behavior, the researchers added: ‘Among women with above-average self-acceptance, pornography use frequency was not associated with problematic pornography use.’

The findings demonstrate that higher pornography use can create ‘difficulties with engaging in goal-directed behavior and self-acceptance’, they added. 

Experts have long, however, raised the alarm over the risks of trying to quit porn quickly, suggesting many experience withdrawal symptoms and unpleasant feelings.

Last year, researchers in Brazil warned that regular porn-users who try to stop suddenly can suffer physical withdrawal-like symptoms such as headaches, chills and even nausea.

After reviewing 14 separate studies they discovered that, as with drugs and other compulsive behaviours such as gambling addiction, being hooked on porn could trigger physical withdrawal symptoms in up to 72 per cent of users. 

One study found 57 per cent of participants experienced ‘cravings’, while 52 per cent also experienced heightened emotions, difficulties in focus and nervousness.

A smaller number — roughly one in 20 — reported sleeping difficulties, headaches, sweating, chills, sickness when they tried to quit porn.

Problematic porn use is a form of compulsive sexual behaviour that can lead to sufferers neglecting relationships, personal health, other interests and responsibilities

The researchers discovered that in most cases people had ‘intense cravings’ to masturbate to porn that caused them to relapse. 

They noted that several of these withdrawal-like symptoms were seen in regular users of porn who weren’t classifies as severe enough to have an addiction.

Following the review authors called for further research to investigate onset, characteristics, duration and proportion of withdrawal-like symptoms.

Sex, and intimacy more generally, has been linked to a string of health benefits, including improving the condition of your heart, reducing stress and even boosting mental health. 

But recent trends show prudish Brits aren’t having as much sex as they used to. 

According to a Royal College of Occupational Therapists (RCOT) poll of 2,000 adults last year, men and women typically romp just 46 times a year — once every eight days. 

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